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Recent work on the psychological distinctions between shame and guilt has important implications for mental health counselors. In particular, the work of Lewis (1971) and Tangney (1990, 1995: Tangney & Dearing, 2002) identifies psychological differences between shame and guilt and how they are phenomenologically expressed that provides helpful insight to those working with clients experiencing these emotions. This paper draws upon this work to establish criteria for distinguishing shame and guilt and to offer guidelines for their treatment.
Distinctions between shame and guilt are often overlooked by those in clinical work (Tangney & Dearing, 2002). Particularly in Western culture, they are often assumed to be interchangeable or synonymous terms (Gilbert, Pehl, & Allan, 1994). Erik Erikson (1950), one of the first to distinguish psychologically between shame and guilt, noted that "shame is an emotion insufficiently studied, because in our civilization it is so easily absorbed by guilt" (p. 252; cf. Lansky, 1995).
This failure to adequately distinguish shame from guilt ignores a growing body of research on important psychological differences between these two emotions (Tangney & Dearing, 2002). Especially noticeable is the absence of studies that explore the implications of these differences for counseling. Research exploring the psychological differences between shame and guilt notes that failure to distinguish between the two emotions contributes to the neglect of shame as a significant clinical problem (Capps, 1993; Konstam, Chernoff & Deveney, 2001; Tangney & Dearing); furthermore, shame is often mistaken for guilt, leading to ineffective treatment for those suffering from shame (Lewis, 1971; Nathanson, 1992; Tangney, 1996; Tangney & Dearing; Tangney, Miller, Flicker, & Barlow, 1996). These problems are likely to increase, given the conclusion of several notable authors that shame, not guilt, is now the prominent emotion troubling Western culture (Scheff 1995; Tangney et al., 1996; cf. Capps, 1993; Cheng & Page, 1995; Fowler, 1996; Kaufman, 2004).
Although shame and guilt show considerable overlap, often appearing together in clients (Tangney & Dearing, 2002), there is a heuristic as well as practical clinical value in reflecting on the differences. This paper reviews recent research on the psychological and phenomenological characteristics of shame as distinguished from guilt. It summarizes important distinctions between the two emotions and how they are experienced. It then outlines the implications of the...