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WHAT KIND OF personal pain would cause a 42-year-old pastor to abandon his family, his calling and even life itself? Members of a Baptist church in Hickory. North Carolina, are asking that question after their pastor committed suicide in his parked car in September.
Those who counsel pastors say Christian culture, especially southern evangelicalism, creates the perfect environment for depression. Pastors suffer in silence, unwilling or unable to seek help or even talk about it. Sometimes they leave the ministry. Occasionally the result is the unthinkable.
Experts say clergy suicide is a rare outcome to a common problem. But Baptists in the Carolinas are soul searching after a spate of suicides and suicide attempts by pastors. In addition to the recent suicide of David Treadway, two pastors in North Carolina attempted suicide and three in South Carolina died by suicide, all in the past four years.
Being a pastor- a high-profile, highstress job with nearly impossible expectations for success- can send one down the road to depression, according to pastoral counselors.
"We set the bar so high that most pastors can't achieve that." said H. B. London, vice president for pastoral ministries at Focus on the Family, based in Colorado Springs, Colorado. "And because most pastors are people-pleasers, they get frustrated and feel they can't live up to that."
When pastors fail to live up to demands imposed by themselves...